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Monday, October 26, 2009

the mentality

living as a student doctor makes me realize that i am actually in a very safe zone...

kenape sy cakap gitu?

sebab hari neh masuk klinik private and i see lots and lots of different cases and it scares me..why?sbb i dunno much...kot..or maybe the knowledge is there but the mind isn't there..hurmm

and bukan s
ebab tuh je tp sebab sy perasan yang being a GP or doctor needs a lot more than knowledge...which is EQ...apekah itu EQ? it is emotional intelligence...kenape die penting? sbb dealing with people means dealing with their emotions..and when dealing with emotions, it means the need of communication skills...and how to be excellent in communication? it is by having emotional intelligence..sbb bile kite berinteraksi dengan orang tanpa berasaskan EQ, the communication fails and so is our mission that day, which is to treat patients..see the difference? most of the times, its not the knowledge that fails the doctor, but the EQ...

i had this problem once with a friend of mine..agak marahlaa ngn die sbb die tak bertanggungjawab dengan tugasan yang dah diberikan kat die...bukan kitorang pakse pon die buat kerje tuh tp die sendirik volunteer..so bile die tak buat kerje die dengan baik, mestila org naik angin...and yang paling tak boleh blah bila org ngumpat die kat belakang2...sampai bile nak
mengate kat blakang kan? that person won't change la kalo mcm tuh...so one day bile dah tak tahan dah, i confronted die...the thing is i wasn't well equipped dgn EQ so kitorang gadohla..the fight lasted long ago but the grudge is there..not with me but with my friend nih la...so that's my experience la kan...til skrg tak berape nak baik macam dulu...hahahahaha..so jgnla kite buat macam nih ye...meskipon niat nye baik, tp org kate, niat tak menghalalkan cara...

so do it right, InsyaAllah we'll benefit from it...
and semoge kite same2 dapat belajar tentang EQ dan mendapat manfaat darinye...
wasalam

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